Hello friends! I hope you have had a lovely week thus far.
This is just a brief little post to say hello and check in.
The blogging world is funny sometimes as you need only step away for a few days
before feeling disconnected, as if you’re missing out.
I also wanted to talk about something I have noticed lately. As I have had
a couple of days to step back, I have noticed several of my friends comment
on what appears to be an influx of negativity in the blog world of late.
Nasty comments, criticizing comments, and overall opinionated comments.
It saddens me to think a community that was once so supportive of each other
might be taking a turn. Yes, there has always been competition and even some
jealousy but now with social media, people are able to hide behind their computers
and say whatever they want without a second thought. It appears gone are the
days when if you had nothing nice to say it was best not to say it at all.
But amongst all the negativity, I have also seen people stand up to (and for)
others and give them a piece of their mind. The problem there is that
it becomes an ‘us’ vs. ‘them’ mentality and I think it takes away from what
we are trying to accomplish and that is: to inspire others, to bring a little
pretty to someone’s ordinary day or an escape from everyday life.
Which brings me to right now.
I want to express my personal gratitude to those who visit
this little place; those who take the time to comment and
leave nothing but wonderful, encouraging words for me.
I am still one of those blessed ones who day after day
receives kindness and love and for that I thank you.
I hope to see you later on tonight at The Inspiration Gallery.
with so much love,
Good morning Lucy 🙂 It is indeed a sad situation. Thankfully I have not experienced any of it personally, but I have seen some of the hateful and jealous comments left on some friends posts.
Wishing you a wonderful Thursday!
Hugs, Gee
I love your blog…I think the world itself is in decay. Unfortunately as you stated, it is so easy for one to hide behind the computer and feel they can “bully”. I for one come to my favorite blogs daily for a break from the world. I appreciate all you do on your blog. You are on my favorites and you are a blessing XO
~Sherri
I love reading your blog and seeing all the great things that you do. Your blog is a nice part of my day!
I love your blog, I am subscribed thru feedly!
Love your beautiful blog ~ you have such a kind and gentle soul, I hope you receive nothing but positive comments. Be Well :0)
I think it might be a mixture of people truly saying rude things and people who aren’t trying to be rude but the tone of their voice doesn’t come across the internet. That happens to me a lot – people think I’m being rude, but it’s just that you can’t hear how it would sound if it were spoken. People need to realize that typing something comes across very differently from saying something, if that makes sense!
Julie I agree with you. I often catch myself typing something and then re-reading it to see if it seems like I have a tone. I try to be really careful but what I personally have experienced lately is down right awful and mean comments. But I also tend to re-read some comments that I may misinterpret to make sure I am not misjudging.
Keep doing what you are doing. You bring light and happiness to a world that is, indeed, sometimes quite dark.
Thanks for your words. I have been mulling this over today before I saw your post, only my thoughts were on something on FB. “If you don’t have anything good to say, don’t say anything at all”. “Agree to disagree”, but with kindness. My thoughts for today on this. Again thanks for sharing this.
always in life there are people who have he need to tear others down to make themselves feel better. blogging just makes it readily accessible for them, but i always know it comes from their own dark places and insecurities and i don’t take it personally. 🙂
Oh Lucy, this post sadden’s me a bit! I love the blogging community and I’ve been part of it only for 1 year… I haven’t experienced any negativity… yet…Everyone has been nothing but lovely and encouraging, BUT, I’m sure I’ll encounter negative people and criticism sooner or later. I will see you tonight at your linky and I hope your mood lifts up. You are a beyond talented and people trying to bring you down, just shows they are jealous of your success and all the good things going on for you. All the best and nothing but lovely thoughts your way!
Thank you so much Lucy for expressing exactly how I feel…couldn’t have said it better myself! You are so sweet and it is always my pleasure to stop by every week and join your party! Hugs, Penny
I love your blog your photos are always so beautiful.and your projects are always so amazing. Thankyou for taking the time to write for us all x
My mom and I were just talking about this today. I haven’t experienced any nastiness from other bloggers (I hope) but more from readers and social media followers on other outlets. I had a feature that got a lot of views last night and the majority of the response was so sweet but then I had about 10% that was just down right mean.. I’m talking absolutely mean. It ranged from being cussed at to being told that I’m pretty much basking in the glory of someone’s financial pitfalls because I purchased a foreclosure. Although many jumped to my defense and I did appreciate that I could see where that could get in to a battle of them vs. us. Why people feel the need to comment so negatively is something I am still trying to figure out. I respect people have different opinions but to go as far as to sling insults and hurtful words over a patio makeover is insane. Luckily, I’m pretty much getting to the point that I don’t care what others think and if they are on my site or social media I won’t allow that type of behavior. I love to inspire and help and I love being inspired by others. None of us bloggers have said we are the authority on all things nor do we say you have to love what we do. However it would be extremely nice if we could all just choose respect instead of hate. Ok venting done. Thanks Lucy and love ya!
Awww, you’re the sweetest thing! I adore you and your blog. The trolls can just go away 😉
Hugs,
Jamie
I agree that rude and malicious comments have no place in this world,, but, at my age- in my 50s- I have come to realize that its each individuals perception as to if a comment or statement is positive or negative. If I make a comment that fits someone belief or supports their ideas or what they Want, then I’m a positive pal of theirs.. If I make a comment stating what I truly believe about any given issue, and it doesnt match their end objective, then I am a Negative Ninny lol..
thats what I mean by one’s perspective.:) Personally inblogland- as I neither tweet nor facebook- I think many many people are saying Nothing they truly feel about certain issues or lying thru their teeth just to keep the peace and of course thats a daily deal the world takes part in every minute 24/7.
I never hide and I say what I mean and mean what I say and according to who I am commenting to is whether they see me as a friend or a foe.. Its all just perspective..
please enjoy the many lovely comments you get and let the rest go..
Peace to You
Sonny
Lucy, I am one of those blessed ones as well. I thought this was a forum to encourage others and feel joy at seeing peoples work. I must say I have not noticed, but I agree with you, we need to be there for each other, and praise achievements.
Hugs Kay
I agree with you. I think there are many things said over social media that would probably never be said in a face-to-face situation. I LOVE visiting your blog and seeing your lovely posts and pictures! The world can not have enough of beautiful things! ♥
Blessings!
Stacy
As always I love you sweet friend! I do wish people did abide by the “if you don’t have anything nice to say…”
xo,
Shannon
It is amazing to me what people will say to others! You are always sweet and encouraging, I believe people who are negative are inside dwellers. They put all their negative words out to hide their jealosy, anger and bitterness. I know it stings but feel very sorry for them and never let them steal your joy, not for one minute. Have a beautiful week, Di@Cottage-Wishes
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