A couple of weeks ago, I shared various outfit ideas for your teen boys. This week, I wanted to share a similar idea with outfits put together for a tween girl. It was to be a no brainer – go to one of Marshalls many locations, pick out several cute little outfits for Bella to wear for back to school, take pictures of said cute outfits and done. But as parents, you’re in a perpetual learning mode, adjusting to your child’s ever-changing stages. Especially those of a tween girl. I am quickly learning that no matter how much influence I may think I have on our daughter, she is developing a personality of her very own. I’m often left realizing that though there are little bits of me in her, she is much braver than I ever was. Bolder than I could ever be and a million times more creative than I at her age. As I picked what I thought would be sweet outfits for her to wear, I realized that gone are the days where I could do that. I realized that pink and purple little dresses are a thing of the past. That giant bows and sweet little matching shoes are no longer part of our lives, replaced by beanies and high tops. No longer am I needed to tie her shoes or kiss her ‘boo boos’, or hold her hand as I walk her to school. You hear people tell you that children grow too fast and it sounds like a cliche. But as I see these photos of our little girl, I’m filled with nostalgia and I’m here to tell you, the cliche is true. So here are the outfits Bella picked out from Marshalls. Once I stopped picking things I thought she would like, we both thoroughly enjoyed the experience and because Marshalls has such a great variety and selection of not only designer clothes but also school bags and shoes, we didn’t have to go anywhere else. She also picked up a very cute backpack which she was most excited about. As Marshalls has so many unique items, there’s less likelihood for one of her friends to have the same backpack. Being unique is so important to her, which I truly admire.
Day 1. The pretty floral skirt mixed with plaids. Who knew this girl could match patterns so well? Day 2. It’s all about layers. Bella chose this beautiful down filled vest, that will not only be useful for the cooler days of fall but also in the Spring. Smart girl.
Day 3. Neutrals mixed in with a pop of color and of course, a pretty little scarf to accessorize. Day 4. She’s feeling like a hipster in this relaxed outfit and a fun beanie.
Day 5. Is all about comfort, but always style.
I keep looking at these photos and I can’t believe our little girl has grown so much so quick. Feeling nostalgic inspired me to write her the following:
Dear Bella,
As I see you grow into a young woman, there are so many things I want to say to you.
You are so very beautiful. You are the fruit of love between your daddy and me and the perfect mixture of our best features.
Oh how I wish you would continue to see yourself the way you see yourself now, not tainted by the standards of beauty of this world.
You are so wise to see beauty in yourself and in others, all while knowing that beauty comes from within.
Your voice brings joy to our hearts, so sing. Sing out loud because those talents you are too shy to share with others;
they are a gift, wrapped in a beautiful package just for you. Not to be hidden, but to be shared with others, but always in humility.
I admire your boldness, yet be cautious of other’s feelings. Be kind my sweet girl, because when someone attacks you,
it takes more courage to be kind than to be angry. But don’t confuse kindness with weakness because it’s okay to say ‘no’ sometimes.
You will never be able to please everyone and that’s okay. Listen to that little voice inside your heart;
the one that warns you to walk cautiously or to flea. More often than not, it’s always right.
Know that even though you might not need us to hold your hand as you walk down the street anymore,
your daddy and I will always be here to give you a hand when you need it. Know that although you don’t need us to read to you at night,
we will always be here to give you a word of advice. Though you no longer need us to teach you how to count, you can always count on daddy and I.
Love, Momma
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ivy pluchinsky says
I tweeted https://twitter.com/ivypluchinsky/status/637970113782611968
ivy pluchinsky says
Her favorite style would be fashionable, she loves dresses and acessories
Tracey says
Thank you for your beautiful words! Great reminder. Courage 🙂
My daughters style; pink with a twist of hip! She loves to add her own style to whatever she wears! Great reminder to let her be who she is created to be!
Pamela says
The photos of Bella are great she is beautiful , your not to her was awesome. Enjoy this journey with her as you stated they grow so fast.
Be blessed.
Sharon says
Love the outfits. Love Marshalls.
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I love Marshalls! Great deals!
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brittany says
My little guy isn’t old enough to have a “style” yet, but I love dressing him in outfits that are all boy! I can always find cute clothes and good deals at Marshalls.
Mary says
Layered casual.
alicia szemon says
Plaid seems to be popular(:
Ashley C says
My daughter is loving animal print this year!
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seham merzib says
my child loves a good pair of skinny jeans and a nice hoodie with converse
Wehaf says
My niece is *very* into cargo pants right now. They can hold all her important kindergarten supplies!
Debbie says
Loved your post!! Your sweet letter to your daughter was so beautiful ….
Gail Plaskiewicz says
I don’t have any children so I can’t enter this but I am chid sized. Does that count? LOL Your daughter is beautiful and she’s bigger then I am even though she’s much younger. I’m 4’6″ tall. I like all her outfits except for the clunky brown boots. I’ve never been a fan of them for me even though they do come in children’s sizes. Good luck with back to school. I remember those days even though they were a long time ago. We go to school in CT before Labor Day which I know you don’t have in Canada. When I was in school we started the day after Labor Day. It can get quite hot before Labor Day and our schools, a lot of them, are not air conditioned. I feel sorry for the kids having to endure a very hot day in school when they could be at a beach or pool swimming.
Susan Christy says
Cargo Shorts & T-Shirts.
Krys says
Thank you for sharing your sweet pictures. Bella seemed to enjoy putting all her new outfits for the photo shoot.
She is good at matching different patterns. Hugs
shaunie says
Her favorite style is the backpack purse and skater skirts
shaunie says
https://twitter.com/sandyhills25/status/638183852704464896
susan h. says
We’re still working with the dreaded hoodie! I am so sick of hoodies!!!
Marie says
My daughter is in a sweater phase
Terri says
Lucy, What a beautiful tween you are blessed to have. My girl is now 30 and lives and teaches school 1200 miles from us. I miss her so. But we have frequent catch-up phone calls. Last night, I read her portions of your letter to your daughter. We agreed that the wise advice you gave Bella was timeless for all women in all phases of their lives. Thank you for the beautiful reminder!
susan says
Anything comfortable! Thank you for the chance!
DK says
This year the focus is not so much “style” but color and pattern. The focus is every thing pink or everything plaid (any color combination).
Julie says
Plaid is their favorite
the cape on the corner says
thanks for this. i love the boho relaxed vibe.
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Lisa Mothersead says
My “kids” are 22 and older. My daughters are talking about ponchos.
Sara Gibson says
My oldest daughter is really into hippie/boho looks this year. They really do grow up fast!
Debbie B says
my niece’ love wearing bright colored comfortable clothes –
Debbie B says
i posted a tweet here:
https://twitter.com/bellows22/status/638558945548767233
angela m says
My daughters favorite style is athletic, leggings, jogging pants, sneakers.
angela m says
tweet
https://twitter.com/flower_child_23/status/638699351162920960
Suzi says
It is 60s chic!
Suzi says
tweeted: https://twitter.com/JustPlainSuzi/status/638736420492984320
Jaclyn Reynolds says
My daughter loved layering and also needs some new shoes for back to school.
Ruby Showalter says
She loves anything girly; pink and purple are her favorite colors right now! Reading your post made me realize about how quickly this stage will pass. I love the letter you wrote to your daughter!
Glogirl says
My cousins style is bright colours with stylish patterns.
Glogirl says
Tweet~ http://twitter.com/glogirl3/status/638805089319288832
Natalie says
My daughter loves comfortable clothes. She is really liking the princess themed clothes that are popular now.
Natalie says
https://twitter.com/yarbr012/status/638844675441356800
CR Williams says
My daughter loves anything with a dress. She loves being a girl.
CR Williams says
Tweeted https://twitter.com/mommysweetiepie/status/638847699396128769
maria says
They like the skater style.
Courtney says
I love that plaid is back in. It takes me back to my high school days. Your daughter is stylin’!
rebthecatsitter says
Practical and comfy is our preferred style!
rebthecatsitter says
I tweeted https://twitter.com/RebTheCatSitter/status/638933498766626816
Jonnie says
My younger son is into the skater style and my oldest is a bit skater and a bit rocker.
Stephanie says
Band tee’s, plaid shirts, denim, and geometric printed backpacks are very cool this year. Luckily Marshalls has all of these!
Dorothy McG says
I loved your letter to your daughter. You are right- she is beautiful. My granddaughter is beautiful also and has a style that I admire. Although she is tall, she’s not afraid to wear things that make her look taller. She tries new things and has a good eye for fashion that is not too trendy. I hope she stays like that.
latanya says
my son enjoys graphic shirts and shorts
latanya says
https://twitter.com/sweetums82/status/639891514332680192
Stephanie Phelps says
My childs style is still jeans and t-shirts or polos!
Stephanie Phelps says
I tweeted
https://twitter.com/my4boysand1/status/639938332307271680
maria cantu says
This year my son is into the skater style.
LAMusing says
Wonderful letter to your daughter! I don’t have kids but I look forward to fall boots.
Norma says
My daughter is older and is talking about wanting some dark colored jeans.
Heidi B says
Its all about the HOOPS and sports. Player jersey, shirts, shorts, t-shirts, specialty name tennis shoes, etc..
Heidi B says
Twitter Entry: https://twitter.com/zanderbear/status/640347431956168704
Madeline says
My child likes plaid or cute shirts without any sayings on them, and bootcut jeans.
Madeline says
Tweet link: https://twitter.com/shala_darkstone/status/640359143946129413
Staci Torgerson says
My daughters” styles are drastically different One is bold colors and a mix of patterns that dresses to her own beat style the other is workout comfort with casual elegance. She’s most of the time doing something sport wise but when she has to dress up she has this beautiful modest elegance in her clothing.
Staci Torgerson says
I tweeted
https://mobile.twitter.com/carpsdaughter/status/640374465478717440
Niki Johnson says
My daughters style changes between ‘Sporty’ and ‘Comfy’. She’s an athlete, and just beginning to care about her appearance.
Niki Johnson says
Tweeted https://twitter.com/NikiJohnson8/status/640381019561046016
Thomas Murphy says
My son likes anything to do with sports.
Thomas Murphy says
tweeted
https://twitter.com/thomasmurphy40/status/640388023553802240
Brenda Haines says
My son has a plaid phase at the moment, but that could change next week, or tomorrow lol. 🙂
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Larry Martin says
Such a heartwarming journey of embracing your daughter’s unique style! Marshalls truly offers a diverse range of options for every tween’s individuality. Love the authenticity in your story!
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